This toolkit tells you what you need to know about getting a divorce when you and your spouse have no minor children together. For general information about the divorce process, read the Articles on this page. Review the Common Questions if you have a specific question. If you want to file for divorce, use the Court Forms links for help preparing the forms you will need. Use one of the Checklists below to make sure you followed all the steps in the process. The links under Court Information will tell you about the court that will handle your case.
Common Questions
You or your spouse must have lived in Michigan for at least the last 180 days (six months) before you can file for divorce.
Your divorce must be filed in the Circuit Court in the county where you or your spouse has lived for at least the last ten days. Most people file where they live, but you don’t have to – you can file where your spouse lives.
Michigan divorce law only requires that you or your spouse live here. However, if your spouse has never lived in Michigan, the court may have limited jurisdiction in your case. Limited jurisdiction means the court can grant your divorce, but might not be able to do other things like divide your property or order child support. If you think Michigan has limited jurisdiction in your case, you should talk to an attorney.
Before you can file a new divorce case, all prior divorce cases must be dismissed. You must tell the court about all other court cases between you and your spouse. If a prior case is still active, the court might not have jurisdiction in a new case. If you have a prior divorce case that might be active, you should talk to an attorney.
Yes. As long as your marriage is valid in the place that you were married, and you or your spouse has lived in Michigan for six months, you can get divorced here.
Yes. Even if you or your spouse is not a U.S. citizen, you can get a divorce here as long as one of you has lived in Michigan for six months. However, if your right to live in the United States depends on your marriage, you should talk to a lawyer about whether you could lose that right if you divorce.
Not usually. Although tribal courts have the authority to hear and decide tribal members' divorces, tribal members normally choose to file their case in a Michigan state court. However, if all of the parties to a divorce (spouses and minor children) live on a reservation, you must file your divorce in tribal court.
Yes. Separate maintenance is similar to divorce except you stay married at the end of the case. You might prefer to file for separate maintenance because of your religion, or if you want to stay married for other reasons. However, if you file a separate maintenance case and your spouse files a counterclaim for divorce, the court must treat the case as a divorce.
Maybe. An annulment is a court decision that a valid marriage did not occur. You can only get an annulment in certain situations. The grounds for annulment are bigamy, incompetence, you or your spouse were too young for marriage, or you and your spouse are closely related. You may also get an annulment if your spouse used force or fraud to get your agreement to marry.
A Michigan court can grant you a divorce if you have a valid common-law marriage. Common-law marriages have not been allowed in Michigan since January 1, 1957. The only common-law marriages recognized in Michigan are those that were entered into before January 1, 1957 and those that were legally carried out in a state recognizing common law marriage.
No. Michigan is a “no-fault” divorce state. This means that you don’t have to prove cheating, abandonment, cruelty, or anything else to get a divorce. You can get a divorce even if you are the person who did something that made your marriage end. The only ground for divorce in Michigan is that “there has been a breakdown of the marriage relationship to the extent that the objects of matrimony have been destroyed and there remains no reasonable likelihood that the marriage can be preserved.” This means that there has been a serious, permanent, marital breakdown. It means that it is very unlikely that you and your spouse can work things out.
It is always best to hire a lawyer if you can. It is a good idea to talk with a lawyer about your rights and options even if you decide not to hire one. Representing yourself in a divorce case is not easy.
If you think your spouse will disagree with you about an important issue, you have a contested divorce case and you should get a lawyer to help you.
You may also need a lawyer if the issues in your case are complicated. You should talk with a lawyer if you:
- Own real estate
- Have a pension or retirement account
- Have children that were born while you were married, but one spouse is not the parent
- Need spousal support (alimony)
- Have experienced domestic violence in your marriage
If you and your spouse disagree over any of the major issues in your divorce, such as property or debt division, child custody, child support, or alimony, you have a contested divorce case. If you have a contested divorce, you should hire a lawyer or at least talk to one.
Your divorce is uncontested if you and your spouse agree on all of the divorce issues or if your spouse doesn’t participate. Usually you can handle an uncontested divorce yourself, but you might need a lawyer if the issues in your case are complicated.
No. You don’t have to be separated or living apart to file for divorce.
Start your divorce case by filing a summons and complaint for divorce in the circuit court in the county where either you or your spouse has lived for at least the last ten days. You can generate these forms by using our Automated Divorce Interview. If you file for divorce, you are called the plaintiff and your spouse is called the defendant.
There is a $150 fee for filing your case. There may also be other costs such as charges for having papers served on your spouse, motion filing fees, and costs for alternative dispute resolution services (mediation).
If you receive public assistance or are low-income, you can ask the court to waive certain fees and costs. For more information on waiving fees and costs, see our article Fee Waivers in Court Cases. If you think you qualify for a fee waiver, you can complete and file an Automated Online Waiver/Suspension of Fees & Costs Form.
When you are the Plaintiff, there are several ways to serve the initial divorce papers on your spouse. Choose the way that makes the most sense in your case. This will depend on things like whether you can pay someone to serve the papers, whether you have a friend or relative who will serve the papers, whether it is safe for a friend or relative to serve the papers, and how difficult you think it will be to serve the papers. You cannot serve the papers yourself. Service can be completed in the following ways:
- Personal service by a police officer or sheriff’s deputy
- Personal service by a private process server
- Personal service by a friend or relative
- Service by certified mail, return receipt requested.
For more information about serving divorce papers on your spouse, see the How to Serve Divorce Papers article.
You must give your spouse legal notice that you have filed for divorce. If you can’t find your spouse, you must get a court order for alternate service, which allows you to serve the divorce papers by publication in a newspaper or another way. To get an order for alternate service, you must file a motion listing everything you did to try to find your spouse. You will have to sign the motion under oath in front of a notary. If the judge agrees that you did everything you could to try to find your spouse, you will probably be allowed to serve the papers by publication or another way.
Having a spouse on active military duty can complicate your divorce case. It may be difficult to find and serve papers on a service member stationed overseas. There are also state and federal laws that give people on active duty extra protections in civil cases. If your spouse is on active duty and has not answered your divorce complaint, a default judgment can’t be entered until the court appoints an attorney to represent your spouse. If you are filing for divorce and your spouse is on active military duty, you should hire a lawyer.
You must still notify your spouse about the divorce if he or she is in prison. Service of process on an inmate is usually pretty easy. You can send the papers to the prison and have prison personnel serve the papers on your spouse and send you back the completed proof of service form. Most Michigan prisons have a litigation coordinator to help with this process. You can call the prison or jail to find out how it handles service on inmates.
It is important that you notify the court as early as possible that your spouse is in prison. Give the court the information that you have about your spouse’s location and release date, if known. Your spouse may be given the opportunity to participate in your divorce case, by phone, teleconference, or in person.
It doesn’t matter. Your spouse can’t stop you from getting a divorce. Michigan is a “no-fault” divorce state. This means you don’t have to prove cheating, abandonment, abuse, or anything else to get divorced. Even if your spouse shows up in court and says “I don’t want a divorce,” you will be able to get one. If your spouse doesn’t file an answer or participate in the case, you can still get a divorce.
If there were no children born during your marriage and you aren’t expecting a child, you must wait at least 60 days after you file for divorce before your divorce can be final. This is a “cooling-off” period just in case you change your mind.
If there were children born during your marriage or you are expecting a child, you must wait at least six months after you file for divorce before your divorce can be final.
In both cases, if you and your spouse disagree about anything in the divorce, it can take longer than the waiting period to get divorced.
In a divorce without minor children, the following things are decided:
- The end (dissolution) of your marriage
- Decisions about how to divide your marital property and debt
- Whether one spouse should pay spousal support (alimony) to the other spouse
Yes. If you and your spouse agree on everything in your divorce, you can work out your own settlement. However, the court won’t approve the terms of the property and debt division unless it is fair to both of you. The court also will not approve the settlement terms related to your children (custody, parenting time, and support) unless they are in your children’s best interests. For more information on how the court views the best interests of children, see the Best Interests of the Child Factors article.
Domestic relations mediation is a process that the court can use to help resolve contested issues in a divorce case. The mediator is a neutral person who helps you and your spouse work out an agreement in your case. You could be referred to mediation if you and your spouse agree to it or if the judge orders it. You and your spouse will pay the mediator a fee.
If any issues remain unresolved at the end of mediation, you and your spouse can ask the mediator to make a written recommendation to the judge about how to solve those issues. However, if both parties don’t agree to have the mediator make a recommendation, the court can’t order mediation.
Some cases are not appropriate for mediation. Your case might be excused from mediation for any of the following reasons:
- You or your spouse has a personal protection order against the other spouse
- Your children have been abused or neglected
- There has been domestic violence in your relationship, unless you both have attorneys at the mediation sessions
- You or your spouse are not able to negotiate for yourself at the mediation, unless you both have attorneys at the mediation sessions
- There is reason to believe that the health or safety of one or both of you will be put at risk by mediation
Arbitration is an alternative to trial when the parties can’t reach an agreement on their divorce issues. Arbitration is different from mediation because the arbitrator’s decisions are binding. The arbitrator will make decisions and issue orders that are enforceable, just as a court would.
You can’t be ordered to participate in arbitration. The court will only send your case to arbitration if you and your spouse agree to it on the record.
Domestic violence is serious and can impact the issues in your divorce. If there has been verbal, emotional or physical abuse in your marriage, you should talk to a lawyer. Your local legal aid office or other agency may be able to help you. To learn more about domestic violence and to contact helpful organizations, please see the Domestic Violence and Divorce toolkits for divorce with or without children.
It is not against any law to date during your divorce. However, the court may restrict you and your spouse from having friends or overnight guests of the opposite sex around your children while your divorce is pending.
If you change your mind about wanting a divorce, you can file a form to dismiss your case anytime before the Judgment of Divorce is entered. However, your case will continue if your spouse filed a counter-claim for divorce against you and wants the divorce to continue. If you dismiss your divorce case and later want to go through with it, you must file a new case and your waiting period will start over. Also, any orders that were entered in the first case will no longer be valid and will not be restored automatically if you file another divorce case in the future.
Yes. As part of your divorce, the court can restore a woman’s maiden name or any other name that she once used. The judge may also allow her to adopt another name if she is not doing so with fraudulent intent.
The division of property and debts must be equitable (fair) in each case. This usually means a 50/50 split, where each spouse gets an equal share. To decide what is fair in your case, the court may consider the following factors:
- How long you have been married
- Both spouses’ contributions to the marital estate (income and other contributions, such as being the primary parent)
- The ages of both spouses
- The health of both spouses
- The life status of both spouses (property division may attempt to maintain standard of living)
- Each spouse’s needs and circumstances (this could include one parent having primary custody of the children)
- Both spouses’ earning abilities (spouse who earns less may be given more than half of the property)
- Both parties’ past relations and conduct (who is at fault)
- General principals of fairness
All of the property and debts that you acquired during your marriage will be divided. Property that one of you had before your marriage can also be divided if necessary to create a fair division. A fair division of property and debts does not always mean a 50/50 split. There may be reasons, such as who is at fault in the break-up of the marriage, to divide the property 60/40 or some other way.
During a divorce the parties normally try to divide all of their marital property and debt in a way that is equal. If the parties can’t agree how to divide their property and debt, the court will decide on a fair division.
Separate property is property that does not get included in your property division. In general, property that one spouse owned before the marriage, or that one spouse received as an inheritance or gift, is treated as separate property and is returned to the owner. However, the court can include separate property in your divorce if the marital property is not enough to support the non-owner spouse and children or the non-owner spouse somehow contributed to the value of the property.
Yes, if the following statements are true about the agreement:
- It is in writing and signed by you and your spouse;
- It was entered into voluntarily without fraud, mistake, or bullying, and with full disclosure; and
- It was fair when you signed it, and circumstances have not changed so much that enforcement would be unfair.
If you signed a prenuptial agreement and are filing for divorce, you should talk to a lawyer.
Your marital home will be part of the property settlement in your divorce. The decision about ownership of the home will not determined by who moves out; instead, it will be made when all of the marital property and debts are divided.
Even if you and your spouse agree that you can stay in your marital home, your spouse will probably want to be paid for his or her share of the home. If you do stay in your marital home, you will have to figure out how to continue to pay your mortgage after your divorce. Usually when you are awarded property in a divorce, you also become responsible for the debt related to the property.
Sometimes the marital home must be sold because the parties need different places to live and the marital home is too expensive for one person.
Spousal support (alimony) is not common. You and your spouse can agree that you should get spousal support as part of your divorce. However, if you don’t agree, the court must decide the issue in a trial. To decide whether your spouse must pay spousal support, the court will consider:
- How long you have been married
- Your ability to work
- The amount and type of marital property you are getting in the divorce
- Your age
- Your spouse’s ability to pay support
- Your present situation and needs
- The health of you and your spouse
- Your standard of living
- Whether your spouse is responsible for your support
- Fault
- General principles of fairness
Pension and retirement plans are marital property, and every Judgment of Divorce must decide what rights each spouse has in them. A court may award you a share of your spouse’s retirement benefits (that were acquired during your marriage) as part of the overall property division in your divorce. If you have a retirement plan or pension, the court may award a share to your spouse as part of the overall property division in your divorce.
No. If you or your spouse has children from a prior relationship, do not include them in your divorce. Only minor children that you and your spouse have together are included in your divorce. This includes stepchildren who were legally adopted by one spouse. If you are expecting a child when the divorce is filed, include information about the pregnancy in your divorce complaint. If a child was born while you were married, but there is a dispute about whether the husband is the father, your divorce may be too complicated to do yourself and you should talk to an attorney.
Yes, although in most situations you must wait for your child to be born to get a Judgment of Divorce. In your divorce complaint, you must tell the court that the wife (you or your spouse) in your case is currently pregnant. By waiting until your baby is born to finalize the divorce, your baby will be included in the custody, parenting time, and child support plans of your Judgment of Divorce.
No. Although Michigan law requires parents to provide health insurance for their children, there are no such laws for a spouse. However, the court may require your spouse to maintain your health insurance during the divorce process.
Additionally, under COBRA (a federal law) your spouse's employer must allow you to be covered by its health insurer for three years after your divorce. However, you must pay the premiums, which will probably be more expensive than when you were covered as a spouse. Also, COBRA doesn’t apply to very small companies (those that have less than 20 employees).
The Friend of the Court (FOC) is part of the family division of the circuit court in each county, and is supervised by the chief judge. Most Friend of the Court offices serve only one county, but there are a few Friend of the Court offices that serve more than one county. The role of the FOC is to assist the court in cases involving custody, parenting time, and child support. Some of the duties that the FOC performs are listed below:
- The FOC investigates and issues recommendations on custody, parenting time, child support, and medical support;
- The FOC helps the parties settle disputes during and after their case;
- The FOC provides enforcement services on existing custody, parenting time, and support orders; and
- Some FOC offices (but not all) investigate and issue recommendations regarding spousal support.
No. Although the court may and probably will consider FOC recommendations on different issues, it is not bound by the FOC findings and recommendations. Also, if you and your spouse agree, you may be able to “opt out” of FOC services in your case.
